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DIY Easy Tiger Face Paint [Halloween] for Kids

  • October 30, 2024March 16, 2026
  • by Jessica Whitney

With Halloween fast approaching, I wanted to share a way to save money on Halloween make-up but still look cute for Halloween. If you have basic makeup in your home, you will be able to complete this easy tiger face paint – DIY at home with what you’ve got! Whether your little one wants to be a generic tiger or trigger, this DIY make-up tutorial is super easy!

Last year, my daughter wore this adorable tiger Halloween costume.

Fact, it’s actually a hand-me-down that myself and my siblings wore! Her older brother was a tiger for Halloween when he was 18 months too. Don’t you just love family traditions?

I started looking up easy tiger makeup ideas for kids and found a few inspirations, but nothing perfect.

I wanted to share a step-by-step guide to do tiger make-up for kids using products you already have at home. Save yourself $10 and grab just a couple of items from your makeup counter!

Originally posted in 2018 and updated with additional images 2024.

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How I use the Pomodoro Technique at Home

  • October 30, 2024January 11, 2025
  • by Jessica Whitney

Productivity and time management tips are not just for working men and women! I love these tips on how to use the Pomodoro technique for moms. This is a tool I use ALL the time to help me focus and stop getting easily distracted.

If you don’t know what the pomodoro technique is, you’re in the right place!

I’ll talk about some really actionable ways to use this tool to create a sense of urgency as a mom to have more time to focus on what’s actually most important for you.

Read more “How I use the Pomodoro Technique at Home” →
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[2026] FREE Simple Budget Template Printable PDF

  • October 29, 2024January 23, 2026
  • by Jessica Whitney

This is such a cute budget planner printable! Budgeting can be overwhelming in the beginning. Whether you’re a new stay at home mom trying to make it work on one income or you’re wanting to start a family budget to begin saving for college, a simple budget template is a perfect place to start.

The Simple Budget Template will help you figure out a “napkin” style budget. This beginner budget planner printable covers the basics of a budget to help you answer the question, “Where in the world does all my money go at the end of the month?”

This free blank budget worksheet printable will go a long way in helping you actually stick to a monthly family budget. Grab it now to get started, here’s the link. It is the foundation of a super organized budget binder.

Original Blog Post November 2020. Updated for the current year.

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Productivity + Planning

36 Easy 15-Minute Cleaning Task Ideas

  • November 20, 2022January 11, 2025
  • by Jessica Whitney

Life is full. Who wants to spend all day, every day cleaning? Whether you are a “messy” person naturally or you love a neat and tidy home, you still want MORE out of life.

One of the best ways I’ve found to stop stressing about cleaning is by focusing on some 15 minute cleaning tasks.

Keep scrolling and you’ll find my list of 36 cleaning task ideas! But I think you’ll also enjoy a little cleaning motivation!!! If so, read below, if not, feel free to skip this section!

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Declutter + Organize

How the One Minute Rule Changed My Cleaning Routine

  • November 20, 2022January 11, 2025
  • by Jessica Whitney

The One Minute Rule Changed My Cleaning Routine

The one minute rule completely revamped the way I go about my daily life and how I teach my kids to take care of our home. It’s amazing how one small change made such a huge impact.

This little mindset change reminded me again that the small things make a big difference, especially when it comes to taking care of a home with four kids, who at the time of this article were ages 8, 6, 3 and 1.

Let’s talk about what the one minute rule is and some ideas of how to implement it in your home too. I think you’ll start to see the power to change your cleaning routine pretty quickly (might I even say, in 60 seconds?)

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Mental Load & Mindset

5 Rules To Be A Successful Mom

  • August 30, 2021August 8, 2025
  • by Jessica Whitney

5 Rules To Be Successful as a Mom

There are the tried and true rules that I follow every day. As a mom to four kids with a husband who travels, these rules are my bread and butter of life that help me be a happy, fun, supportive, and positive mother.

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Consistency Over All or Nothing

Something is better than nothing. Implementing small changes and improvements each day creates a compounding effect. When we choose all or nothing, unfortunately, nothing normally wins. When we choose progress over perfection, we all win.

Daily accountability

There are many forms of accountability. Whether you actually reach out to a friend, hire a life coach, or use an online checklist to hold you to your daily goals, make sure you have something in place to motivate you and guarantee your success. 

I meet monthly with a group of friends to discuss our goals and dreams and what we want to improve on. Knowing that I have to report to someone about these goals makes all the difference. At these meetings, we reflect on and encourage each other through Power Sheets, an intentional and purpose focused planner.

Stop waiting for the perfect time

Many people, if they fall off the wagon on a goal or intention, they immediately quit and say they will wait until the next week. Next month. Next year.

If you don’t succeed on Monday, don’t wait an entire week to try again. That’s 6 days wasted just to have a “new beginning.” Instead, brush yourself off and begin again as the sun rises.

Make a decision

Many of us fall into routines and habits without realizing it. We become passive participants in life. Most of us need to make the decision to start showing up.

When we choose to show up, when we choose to actively make decisions about how we spend our time and money and efforts, we become more connected and aware of how we can improve our lives and find ourselves again.

Choose your top three.

I am a classic overlister. I use to do lists for everything. Whenever my husband would ask me how my day went, I would bemoan that I got “nothing” done. This “nothingness” day in and dat out discouraged me. The truth of the matter is, I actually got “a lot” done, but my list was so long and cumbersome I couldn’t see my success. All I could see were the little unchecked boxes on my never ending list.

Over time, I’ve gotten better at setting realistic goals so I feel like a success. I limit my expectations to just the top 3 most important items for the day (this is how I think moms should make an effective to do list!). If I complete those items, then I celebrate the day as a success. If I get anything else checked off “the list”, then that’s a lovely bonus.

Once I get my top three items done, I make a positive choice to relax and enjoy my rest rather than wallow in the sense of laziness that abounds itself when you put off what you know you should do.

Last Thing You Should Know about Being a Successful Mom

There is no such thing as perfection. As soon as you let that go, you will be able to enjoy motherhood so much more! Each day, if you focus on consistency, intentionality, and managing expectations, you’ll find you do have more control over your life than you ever imagined. Stop being a passive bystander in your life, and start taking action today.

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The Ultimate Home Management Binder Guide

  • June 9, 2021December 11, 2024
  • by Jessica Whitney

Creating a home management binder can be time consuming at first, but it’s totally worth it for the peace of mind you get after ward!

If you want to:

  • Create your own home management binder
  • Get organized at home so you can spend more time with the people you love
  • Figure out what actually belongs in a home management binder
  • Simplify your home management so you feel less overwhelmed

Then you’re in the right place! Let’s go!

The Ultimate Home Management Binder Guide

Home management does NOT have to be rocket science. I so appreciate someone to just take my hand and guide me down a path so I don’t have to do all the research myself. This Home Management Binder guide is all the thoughts, research, and ideas I’ve found in one place.

It will most likely be a living document, so check back often for more home management binder ideas.

Why do you need a home management binder?

First off, is this really a thing? Do you really NEED a home management binder?

Keeping track of all of life’s little details for yourself, your family, and your home can be exhausting and overwhelming. Been there. Done that.

But, I truly believe with the right rhythms, habits, and systems in place, even during the busiest seasons of life you can be organized and create space for what’s most important. A home management binder could be the perfect tool to give you peace of mind that you’ve got all the little details squared away.

Let’s dive in and talk ideas, shall we?!

1. Choose 1 place to store your home management binder

This is all about ONE place for all your home stuff in life. Not scattered around the house in multiple locations.

Having everything in one place is not only more convenient, it also declutters how much you have to keep in your head.

It limits decision fatigue because you don’t have to remember where you keep your important documents. Likely, you’d like to have your significant other be able to access this information too! If that’s the case, make sure you consider access, editing ability, apps, and usability.

Here are a few ideas:

  • Paper binder
  • Dropbox
  • Evernote
  • Trello
  • Google Drive
  • OneDrive
  • External Hard Drive
  • Drive on your computer

2. Digital vs Paper Home Management Binder

The first thing you need to decide is if you’re going to go paper or digital. If you noticed, most of the suggestions I gave above are for a digital home management binder. I personally like to keep most of our documents digital because there’s less clutter and I can edit it often.

However, I am definitely a person that loves real binders, turning pages, and pretty printables, so if you love having everything in a binder that you can pick up and turn through, then I say, go for it!

Another benefit of a paper binder is the convenience to throw paper items as you go.

For example, if the school schedule from your son’s preschool is printed and put in their folder, you can easily add it to your home management binder for reference during the school year instead of it getting lost in the mail pile.

3. What should be in a home management binder?

Great question. There are so many options to put in your binder, and it really is up to you!

These suggestions are here to help you get started. Feel free to customize as you desire.

  • To Do Lists
    • Daily
    • Brain dump
    • Weekly
    • Time blocking
    • Master To do List
  • Cleaning Organization
    • Cleaning List – monthly, weekly
    • Chore chart
    • Chore money tracker (kids bank accounts)
  • Financial Documents
    • Budget
    • Daily tracker
    • Networth calculator
    • Account log-in info
  • Cheatsheets
    • Guest list – preferences/allergies/details about the guests so if they come over for dinner you’ll already have that information handy
    • List of neighbors – remember your neighbors’ names
    • Important people – new friends, old friends, neighbors that you want to get to know better
    • List of holiday events to attend – the next time the year rolls around
    • List of birthdays
  • Food
    • Pantry Inventory
    • Meal Planning Printable (Psst… there’s a free one in the 30 day savings challenge)
    • Weekly Meal Plan
    • Grocery List
    • Monthly Meal Plan

Psst…. Meal Planning Printable and Monthly Meal Plan are included in the FREE 30 Day Savings Challenge. Join the email challenge here!

  • Children & Pet Docs
    • Baby sitter guide
    • House sitter guide
    • What do the grandparents need if they have the kids for the weekend?
    • School Documents
    • Kids activities schedules 
    • Pet Vaccines & Doctor Appointments
    • Pet registration info
  • House Info
    • Home service/contacts and contractors – plumbers, electricians, lawn care
    • Paint colors
    • Home maintenance tracker
    • Vehicle maintenance tracker
    • Info about electronics, household purchases, decor, etc.
  • Lawn and Garden Info
    • Place to stash plant information about plants
    • Lawn Treatment maintenance log
    • Garden log
    • Garden planner
  • Medical Docs
    • List of doctors, contact information
    • Medical Papers (copies of immunization records, insurance docs, phone numbers, names of physicians, infant medicine charts from doctor)

A few other tips on how to make a home organizing binder

Use a binder with tabs

Laminate the pages to reuse again and again (less waste!)

Use page protectors – don’t need a laminator, but could still resuse if you wanted to write on the page protectors.

Create a daily, weekly, monthly checklist that is specific to your family.

Divide and conquer your daily to dos: Divide into morning, afternoon, evening…

For example, in the morning: empty the dishwasher, decide on dinner, move laundry to the dryer. In the afterrnoon: prep dinner, put lunch dishes in dishwasher from lunch, and put away laundry.

What not to put in your home organization binder

These are a few items you should NOT include because they’re too important to lie around on the kitchen counter every day.

  • Birth certificates
  • Passports
  • Insurance docs
  • House Docs
  • Vehicle Ownership

Instead of going in the home management binder you should put them in a fireproof cabinet/box. Fireproof safes are pretty inexpensive on Amazon. You know you need one, just get it done and check it off!

The Last Thing You Need to Know About Creating Your Own Home Management Binder

As with most things in life, it does NOT have to be perfect. Try for 1% improvement each day. As you improve your habits and your organization it will become more a part of your routine and identity. I LOVE that the home management binder gets you organized and provides a landing place for all the STUFF.

But everyone’s home management binder looks different, so feel free to create as you see fit! Enjoy the process as you get organized!

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Productivity + Planning

110 Mini Habits to Track in the New Year

  • November 14, 2020July 1, 2025
  • by Jessica Whitney

I have been scouring the internet for good habits to track (and also bad habits to stop), and I finally came up with a list!

Whether you pick one off this list or it simply inspires you to track another habit, the key is ACTUALLY picking one and beginning to track your habits.

I love tracking habits because these small actions lead to seriously big change over time.

When I’ve tracked habits:

  • I’ve increased my passive income 200%
  • Met my weight loss goals
  • Trained for multiple half-marathons post baby, and
  • Decreased my feelings of overwhelm as a stay at home mom (just to name a few).

Let’s chat about a few habit questions and then dive into the ultimate list of habits you can add to your tracker!

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110 Habits to Track (why and how to track effectively!)

110 habits to trackk to improve your life and how to track them

What exactly is a “habit”?

Each time you complete a new action, thought, or belief, your brain fires neurons that forge pathways in your brain. 

As you repeat certain actions, it becomes easier for your brain to complete these actions without your conscious thought and effort. These actions then become habits.

A perfect example is driving home from work without “realizing” it because your brain went on autopilot. This is a habit!

In Charles Duhigg’s Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business, he discusses that each habit is proceeded by a cue and followed by a reward. I won’t get into the cue/reward part too much here but it is an important concept to think about when looking at your habits.

Also, save this post if you’d like to know the difference between good habits, bad habits, and how to break them!

Why habits and not routines?

Habits are automatic actions you don’t have to think about. This is versus routines that are normally a series of actions that you put together in order to achieve a specific goal. 

I am a stay at home mom with 4 kids managing a business, home life, multiple schedules, and trying to balance all the things: fitness, quality time with my family, my cleaning schedule, meeting up with friends, my personal goals, date nights with my husband, bills, appointments, etc.

If I can habitualize AS MUCH OF MY DAY as possible, I absolutely will. Creating healthy habits helps me limit decision fatigue and also get rid of my feelings of overwhelm.

What’s the best way to track habits?

I personally like using a habit tracker either in a bullet journal, planner, habit tracker journal or printable. But a basic calendar is also a helpful tool!

Why a habit printable or habit calendar? Isn’t there an app for that?

I don’t know about you but when I open my phone, I get EASILY distracted. The buzzing and notifications are endless.

I do NOT need another reason to turn on that bright, addictive screen or download ANOTHER app because that will just distract me from my goals. I recommend going screen-free for this activity.

Here is a free habit tracker and brainstorming worksheet to get you started.

Free habit tracker printable PDF positive and negative habits

<< Download the free habit tracking PDF here!>>

So….What do I do for my habits?

I track my habits on a pretty printable or habit calendar instead. It brings a little bit of satisfaction to check mark off that habit and say DONE. I personally use my Cultivate What Matters: Power Sheets to track my habits.

According to Psychology Today, that satisfaction then brings a smile to my face (I mean at least a little one!) which increases my endorphins and serotonin and reinforces the benefits of doing that previous activity because my brain is literally having a happy party because of my smile.

How many habits should you track?

This is one of the most important things! You should ONLY track 2 – 6 habits when you’re first starting out. Do not overcommit!

What daily habits should I track?

If you’re only focusing on daily habits I recommend starting with your morning routine habits that you want to change first and go from there throughout the day.

It takes energy to change your habits and to create new ones because they aren’t automatic yet! If you can get consistent with your morning habits then you can stack on other habits later.

Also, research has suggested, self-control is very similar to strength or energy. It can be depleted throughout the day which gets in the way of what we would consider “good decision making.”

Why do we splurge on an item we rationally know we shouldn’t? Why do we binge watch a show when we know we should go to bed? 

A lot of our irrational decision making is tied to a depletion of self-control. Therefore, if you start in the morning with new tasks, your self-control will be at it’s highest peak, and thus you’ll be able to complete tasks you normally wouldn’t have the “energy” for.

Here are some small changes to make for a big difference:

I love to think about the 1% rule as I go about my days. My only goal each day is 1% improvement each day.

I strive for just ONE small change or new habit EACH DAY that aligns with my current goals and priorities. Think about it…

If you improved 1% every WEEK, you would see a 52% change by the end of the year! Now, THAT Is something worth working towards.

“I never stick to my habits, how do I make sure it works this time?”

If you are having trouble sticking to your habits, then try to focus on a habit that is EVEN SMALLER. The smaller the better.

For example, want to work out every day? Instead, focus on putting on your work-out clothes.

Want to stop snacking when bored? Instead, focus on drinking a full glass of water when you feel bored.

While I cannot guarantee this works for EVERYONE, I do know, if it hasn’t been working for you so far, it’s time to change SOMETHING. Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is a little bit silly isn’t it?

So, without further ado, check out this list of small changes and habits to make a big difference in your life.

I broke it down by the following categories (which you can totally click on) or you can just scroll away!

Let’s go!

  • Personal Goals Habit List
  • Health Habit List
  • Home management and cleaning habit list
  • Relationships and quality time list
  • Work Habit List

Personal Goals Habit List

  • Don’t hit the snooze button.
  • Went to bed by a certain time.
  • Read a book for 30 minutes.
  • Got target amount of sleep for the night.
  • No social media all day.
  • No spend day.
  • Invested in self-care.
  • Turned electronics off 30 minutes before bed.
  • Yoga / stretching
  • Took a photo of all of your kids.
  • Backed up your photos.
  • Wrote in your gratitude journal.
  • Left work on time.
  • Less than 1 hour of social media.
  • Honed a new skill.
  • Worked toward a specific goal.
  • Met 10K+ step goal for the day.
  • Closed your rings on your iWatch.
  • Edited family photos.
  • Create a photo album for the year.
  • Spent 1 hour outside.
  • Drank a glass of water first thing in the morning.
  • Bible / prayer time in the morning.
  • Started your diffuser with your favorite essential oil after breakfast.
  • Unsubscribed from unnecessary emails for 10 minutes.
  • Didn’t watch TV.
  • Did not raise my voice at my kids during dinner.
  • Journaled for 5 minutes.
  • Practiced something trying to learn (i.e. calligraphy, painting, language).
  • Set an intention for the day based on your goals.
  • Picked 1 item on my to do list and knocked it out first.

Health Habit List

  • Ate 5 vegetables.
  • Ate 2 fruit.
  • Exercised.
  • Drank my target water amount.
  • No junk food, alcohol, soda, etc.
  • Took vitamins/medicine.
  • Flossed your teeth.
  • No snacking.
  • Created a meal plan.
  • Made protein balls.
  • Researched easy recipes.
  • Added recipes to make to Pinterest board.
  • Used retainer at night.
  • Cleaned with mouth wash.
  • No pimples.

Home management & Cleaning Habit List

  • Made a weekly master to do list.
  • Prioritized to do list for the day.
  • Wrote down your expenses for the day.
  • Updated your budget.
  • Completed top priority on to do list (urgent AND important).
  • Tidied the kitchen before bed.
  • Started the dishwasher before bed.
  • Loaded the washing machine before bed.
  • Started the dryer when you woke up.
  • Sorted the mail.
  • Decluttered a closet for 30 minutes.
  • Tossed worn out clothes while folding laundry.
  • Prayed for your family while folding laundry.
  • Ran the Roomba in one room.
  • Vacuumed one room in the house.
  • Gave the kids a bath.
  • Washed sheets and towels.
  • Vacuumed baseboards.
  • Watered your plants.
  • Paid the bills.
  • Transferred money into a savings account.
  • Did a 15 min quick tidy before dinner.
  • Draino’d the sink.
  • Washed sheets.
  • Washed towels.
  • Wiped down kitchen cupboards.
  • Cleaned the oven.
  • Tossed expired items from the pantry.
  • Dusted ceiling fans.
  • Ran a cleaning cycle on dishwasher.
  • Ran a cleaning cycle on laundry machine.
  • Cleaned the microwave.
  • Wiped down stove top.
  • Mopped the floors.
  • Swept the kitchen.

Read: The Ultimate Home Management Binder for Busy Moms

Relationships & Quality time Habit List

  • Researched a future vacation.
  • Went for a walk with the family.
  • Rode bikes with the family.
  • Read a book with the kids before bed.
  • Spent 15 min 1:1 time with one family member.
  • Favorite highs/lows at dinner with family.
  • Family dinner.
  • Let the kids pick a favorite meal.
  • Texted a friend that you are thinking about them.
  • Called your parents.
  • Date night with spouse.
  • Weekly pow wow with spouse.
  • Monthly family meeting with everyone.
  • Had a dance party in the kitchen.
  • Date with each kid monthly.
  • Watched a show with your spouse.
  • Planned a date night.
  • Added date night to the calendar.
  • Walked around the block with your dog.
  • Went for a bike ride with the kids.
  • Taught your kid how to play a sport.
  • Drew chalk designs on your driveway.

Work Habit List

  • Worked towards a goal (side hustle, decluttering, redecorating, etc.)
  • Brain dumped your to do list daily (there’s a free daily to do list printable here!)
  • Wrote a short to do list for the day that is more manageable.
  • Scheduled breaks.
  • Closed your email while working on a task.
  • Tackled the challenging tasks in the morning.
  • Did not multi-task.
  • Asked someone to be your accountability partner.

List of habits to stop!

This isn’t a comprehensive list but it’s a few that I’ve seen get in the way of what’s actually important to you.

  • Checking your phone as soon as you wake up
  • Sleeping with your phone next to your bed
  • Checking Facebook on the can
  • Checking notifications as soon as they go off
  • Running shoes put away in the closet
  • Planning to go to the gym after work
  • Checking email compulsively
  • Turning on Instagram without thinking
  • Snacking when bored

So what now? Common questions for new habit tracking people.

This list is totally overwhelming, where do I even start?

I recommend starting with 1 goal that you have and asking yourself which habits support that goal or take away from that goal. Start there!

If your goal is to have a cleaner home, I recommend starting with habits around cleaning. 

If your goal is to develop better relationships with your kids, then I encourage you to add and subtract habits that relate to quality time with your kids. 

Pick 2-3 for the month that support that goal. You do NOT and should NOT try to tackle all of these at once. 

How do I use a habit calendar?

I LOVE habit calendars because they are easy to use for one simple habit. Although this list is LENGTHY it is simply meant to inspire, not overwhelm you.

Pick ONE habit off the list and use a simple 30 day calendar to X off each day that you complete the new habit.

I also like to pursue my longest “habit streak” as well. How many days can I go In A ROW? I don’t want to skip today because I’ll break my streak!

What is better to track – daily habits, weekly habits, monthly habits?

Great question! You probably noticed that some of the habits I listed on here are habits you might do weekly not daily.

If that is the case, make a list of the habits you want to track and identify if it is daily, weekly, or monthly. I still recommend only picking 2-3 to start out with!

The last thing you should know about the best habits to track…

Everyone has their own goals they are working towards. Remember, it’s all about progress over perfection. Trust the process and marking off your habits. At the end of the week or month, congratulate yourself for a job well done throughout the month. Give yourself a reward and keep on keeping on! You got this!

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Birth Story: What it’s like to have a scheduled…

  • October 8, 2020December 11, 2024
  • by Jessica Whitney

A lot of people are excited about the prospect of sharing their child’s birth story. Yet, considering the idea of birth and the sheer definition of it, always leaves me feeling a bit unsure about the story to share.

You see, I didn’t have to birth my child. I was never officially in labor.

My first born came via a pre-scheduled C-section. It wasn’t an elect a day out of convenience sort of situation. It was a mandated eviction by my OBGYN. You see, I had a high risk pregnancy.

Birth Story: What it’s like to have a scheduled C-Section because of Hypertension

This post is part of several birth stories submitted by REAL women looking to share their experiences with other women. If you’re interested in submitting a birth story, please visit my contact page.

Reminder that these are personal experiences and do not substitute the medical advice of your physician. Always talk to your doctor about your unique situation!

I was a 29 year old with hypertension. I’d been on medication for hypertension since before I was married, so it wasn’t a situation brought about by pregnancy. But having hypertension can definitely throw a wrench in the development of a baby.

Having high blood pressure is definitely a challenge for pregnant mommies who face preeclampsia. I was put in the high risk category early on in my pregnancy and charged to go to weekly appointments early on. I had to visit the hospital each week in addition to my OBGYN for weight checks, heart rate monitoring of my baby girl, extra sonograms to check grown, and stress tests.

So although some people share memories of where their water breaks and being in labor at home for hours/days, I don’t have those memories to recall. I have memories of sitting in the hospital recounting anything I’d eaten pre-appointment, sharing how much fluids I’d had that day while working on a tight school schedule, and feeling guilty for any stress I was under from balancing a teaching career with taking time to go to appointments multiple times a week.

My first born was supposed to be an early June b-day. Doctors had different plans based on my body and out of concern for my health. Baby girl was breech with no hope of shifting into position. She was literally stuck with her hips between mine.

So a plan was set up to deliver her via c-section for everyone’s safety at 37 weeks and 3 days.

The idea of surgery was scary.

– Kimberley

I’ve only had surgery for wisdom teeth removal. I wouldn’t say I’m afraid of blood or needles, but I also don’t jump at the chance to go to a hospital for minor injuries. Willingly signing up to be drugged and cut open is not something I preferred.

I remember not sleeping well the night before her birth. I woke up at one point to go to the bathroom and thought my water had broken. We called the OBGYN and headed to the hospital to get checked. It was a false alarm.

Rather than let me stay until my scheduled surgery, they sent us home to “rest”. When it was finally time to get ready for the hospital, I showered and changed. My mother in law, father in law, and my mom met my husband and I at the hospital to be there for our daughter’s birth.

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With a pre-scheduled c-section, we had a hospital suite to wait in before surgery. I was hooked up to machines to track contractions (wasn’t having them), fetal movements, and fetal heart rate. I also had blood pressure monitoring.

Doctors checked in on us. The anesthesiologist explained the procedures to us before entering the operating room. The nurses explained who would be with us in the operating room and what the timeframes would likely be. Everyone was extremely kind and respectful.

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To prepare for the surgery, an epidural was administered to numb everything below my waist.

To get this epidural, I had to sit in the operating room on the edge of the bed/table leaning forward to the point of almost falling off the surface with the support of a nurse I’d just met.

Tom had to wait until everything was ready for surgery before joining me in the operating room. The feeling of the epidural needle was described as pinching a bit like a bee sting, with the requirement to not flinch or move while it’s in your spinal column. It felt like being stung by a wasp with a burning sensation around the entry point. Then, the feelings all faded away.

I was assisted into the bed by the nurses. Then they prepped everything – from placing my arms in certain positions near me with warm blankets to sterilizing and testing my stomach for numbness. Once prepped and before any incisions occurred, they fetched my husband to join me.

I had a blue hospital shield in from of me, so I couldn’t see anything. I could hear everything happening around me, but the actual delivery was just happening to me. Suctioning of fluids, tugging at my abdomen, the OB propped up trying to get her out.

When she was tugged/lifted out, Tom focused on what they were doing with her. I couldn’t see her at all. She didn’t breathe right away. She wasn’t reactive right away. They took her into a separate little area to suction her and check her Apgar levels.

When she finally cried, relief passed over us.

Ryleigh was born at 5lbs 12oz.

Hospital Stay Post C-Section

We were in the hospital for the next couple of nights. Family visited us, bringing snacks, coming to snuggle her, and checking in on us.

Staying at the hospital was exhausting. My milk didn’t come. She lost weight. There was a chance she would have to stay in the NICU because of her weight loss. I didn’t sleep because I was in such awe of the tiny human I now held…

She latched, but it wasn’t enough.

We made the decision to supplement with formula to try to help her. A lactation specialist worked with us to attempt to get her to latch while simultaneously getting formula. We had to use this insane tubing system to drip formula into her mouth while she was latched to my breast. It sucked!

Tom and my dad helped me feed her. They had to hold the formula dispenser up in the air while I attended to her latch and ensured the tube stayed in her mouth.

When we finally got approval to go home, we left with tubing to continue the insane feeding regimen at home. We also had to do extra weight checks with the pediatrician to ensure she gained back the lost birth weight.

She was at 5lbs 2oz when we headed home.

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Ryleigh is now a healthy kindergartener.

We are incredibly thankful to those who helped deliver her safely and helped us in our first adventure into parenthood.

I can’t tell a labor story of natural birth methods, but I can share that her birth was incredible.

This is a guest post submission by Kimberley W. Kimberley is a mom of 2 beautiful girls.

These are her opinions, experiences, and thoughts and do not reflect professional medical advice. Always consult your physician about your own medical situation!

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  • September 29, 2020December 11, 2024
  • by Jessica Whitney

This post is part of several birth stories submitted by REAL women looking to share their experiences with other women. If you’re interested in submitting a birth story, please visit my contact page. As a reminder, these are experiences and opinions of real women, but you should always consult your physician or midwife for your particular situation.

From natural labor in a birthing tub to pitocin to a C-section, three women share their incredible personal birth stories that uniquely reflect the miracle of giving birth to their sons and daughters. I love sharing positive birth stories (no matter the type) with others because I believe they offer hope when you are nervous or scared about the unknown.

Birth stories make me cry every time, what about you? Why do I do this to myself and read them? hahaha.

Oh wait, it’s because I LOVE ishy-squishy babies. Also, I’m overwhelmed with emotion as I think of all the hopes and fears and dreams that overflow in that tiny moment in between when a new mom takes a labored breath followed by the cries of a newborn.

Grab your tissues and enjoy these amazing birth stories shared by real women. I am so inspired by the strength of these women and mamas!

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3 Unique Labor and Delivery Stories from Real Women for First Time Moms

A Second Natural Hospital Birth with Pitocin and a Doula

Thanks Liz for sharing your birth story and all the deets!

Ok, I know they say that each birth is different and man, can I say that this rings SO TRUE to my story?  My second daughter had a due date of December 18, 2019. 

Because my first baby was two weeks overdue, I really was not expecting to be due on time, let alone early.  Well, the week before her due date I started doing this 7 minute exercise I found on YouTube of squats and hip shaking to help move baby into place. I honestly didn’t think it would work, considering the first time around I tried EVERYTHING to go into labor.

Well, I couldn’t be more wrong. 

December 16 is my husband’s birthday, and since that was a Monday we decided to celebrate with family the Sunday prior (the 15th). I was feeling weird all day, super tired, sorta “off” but honestly I didn’t think much of it. 

By that time in pregnancy you feel all sorts of things, so I just wrote it off as an “I’m almost due hence the discomfort” feeling. Well, my body was actually trying to tell me something.

That evening, at 2 am I woke up with heartburn (my nemesis the whole pregnancy) and rolled over to use the restroom and get a tums.  Eric popped awake and said “Is everything OK?!” I said, “yes, just heartburn, ugh.”

Well, then as I stood up out of bed I felt that famous warm feeling of water running down my leg.  I said, “Uh, I think my water just broke.”

I proceeded to the toilet, where, yes indeed it was my waters breaking, as it was super clear and odorless (phew, I did not pee myself!). 

I didn’t know what to do at this point, honestly. I did not expect my water to break first, as that did not happen with my first labor.  I also was bummed because I knew the 24-hour clock started ticking and I wouldn’t be able to labor in my warm bath at home.  Bummers aside, I needed to call my doula because I needed help deciding what to do!  She calmed my fears and told me to feel for contractions and movement with the baby.

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Well, contractions officially started at 3 am and were mild but regular. Eric was awake, all giddy because we didn’t think the baby would come early, let alone on his birthday!  I tried to get some rest because I was thinking I’d be in this for the long haul.  So, I didn’t sleep much but was able to close my eyes until Maddison woke up, about 6 am.  We got her ready for daycare and let her know her baby sister was on the way!

We took our sweet time getting to the hospital.  At around 9 am, we arrived and the nurses were NOT happy I waited 6  hours to arrive, but my doctor called in direct admit orders so they couldn’t stay mad. 

Once we got settled in my labor room, that’s what I did…labor, walk, labor, bounce on the ball, labor, inhale clary sage, labor more.  Around 12pm my progress was checked and I was only dilated 3-4 cm. I was totally deflated knowing that I was on a 24 hour timeline per hospital policy.

We were faced with the decision to start Pitocin to get things moving.  Now, I am doing this labor thing without pain killers and I had not heard very many positive things about Pitocin.  My nurse was super sweet and promised we would start at the absolute lowest dose and increase as slowly as possible. 

After laboring for a couple more hours, I only dilated to about 5 cm.  I had to make the decision to go for Pitocin.  At about 4 pm, they started the drip.  Man, contractions DID change.  They were HARD. 

I was able to rest in between (which I was worried would not happen with Pitocin), but once they came they came on strong.  After a couple hours of intense focus to get through each painful contraction those invasive thoughts of “I don’t know if I can do this” crept in my mind. 

My doula was right there, coaching me with, “Yes, you have done this before and you can do it now.” It’s just what I needed to get me through.  Another difference between this labor and the first was that I experienced nausea. Ugh, that was terrible.  This essential oil helped a TON though.

So, through this time I was laboring, I would take a few contractions on the toilet, as that opens up the hips more and progresses things.  Well, at about 7 pm I decided to sit on that porcelain throne again and 3 HARD HARD contractions came. 

I walked back to the bed, facing the back of it, one leg on the floor and verbalized “I don’t know if I can do this for another two hours” (thinking I still had that much time). 

Well, the Big Man upstairs must have heard me, because then my next thought was, “Man, I feel like I have to $**t!” (pardon the explicative)

So, baby decided she was coming.  No time to waste.

I was facing the back of the bed with my hands on the guardrails, on my knees yelling “She’s coming! She’s coming!”  Now, back up one sec, it was 7 pm at this point. For those in healthcare, we know this is “shift change” and that is exactly what was happening. 

The nurse coming on duty said, “Well, let me check you.,” and I think at this point I said, “NO, I’m a 10. SHE IS COMING”.  It was sort of a blur because she was coming FAST. 

So, with me kneeling on the bed, my husband ripped my panties off and they were wheeling me 20 feet away into the delivery room.  Right as they got me into that room, I couldn’t stop myself, I pushed all of two times and baby girl came out!

Eric tells me she came so fast the nurse almost didn’t get there to catch her.  Also, the doctor never arrived in time to deliver.  My doula says she texted the doctor at 7:21 that I was ready to push, and by 7:26 MacKenzie Avery was here, all 8 lbs and 20.75 inches of her!

I have never felt such a sense of relief as I did holding that baby girl in my arms that evening.  Its an odd feeling, birth is.  So much pain, so much suffering, but so much sweetness. 

Even more sweet, though, getting to watch her big sister fall in love.

Wyatt’s Birth Story: A Grateful C-Section

Thanks Teara for sharing Wyatt’s unique birth story!

I truly think everything happens for a reason. And well Wyatt decided that he would take after his own mother and provide me with a great birthing story.

I was told by my OB and a specialist that Wyatt was measuring big and that for my safety it would be best to be induced. I went in on Sunday night thinking that soon I would be holding my baby boy. Both my doctors and nurses warned me that being induced would not allow for my body’s natural endorphins to be produced and it would hurt a little more (and being a stereotypical redhead I knew my options for birth were natural or with an epidural).

So after the initial pain of labor I opted for an epidural (also might have puked my brains out a lot).

Well, my progress was slowed because of the epidural. But after almost 26 hours Wyatt was in my pelvis, and well it was time to push. And push I did, for 4 hours. (Now this is the part of the story where he takes after me).

After 4 hours and two epidurals, I asked my nurse if what I was doing was working. I felt the need to push, but my son had a LARGE head. And when asked my nurse laughed and told me no.

If I could have jumped off the bed I would have. It had been almost 32 hours since I was admitted into the hospital. I wanted to hold my son, and I was tired.

So we called for my OB and she came in and saw me and saw me push and agreed that Wyatt was being stubborn and that he would not fit through my pelvis. So it was time for a C-section.

Finally after 33 hours of being induced, labor, and major surgery, I finally got to see my son. And it is a good thing that we had the C-Section because he had somehow wrapped his umbilical cord around his neck.

If I had given birth to him vaginally it would have harmed him more.

So I do think everything happens for a reason.

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An Overdue Mama Shares Her Birthing Tub Labor and Delivery

Thanks Marissa for sharing this beautiful story!

On 3/6/2020 I was 41+2 weeks. At 1:15 am I woke up to go to the bathroom and saw that I had my bloody show. I laid back down in bed but started having a contraction. I went to the bathroom and then had another contraction so I decided to get in the shower to help with the pain.

The contractions were intense, lasting about 30 seconds and coming every 3 minutes. I didn’t want to get out of the shower but knew this was it and needed to wake up Chris.

As we were getting everything ready for the hospital I was continuing to have contractions for 30 seconds 2-3 minutes apart. We load up the car, drop Wyatt off at my cousins’ and headed to the hospital. We got to triage around 3 am.

My blood pressure was good so I was cleared for the birthing suite. The midwife I was hoping for was on call that night. She checked me and we were all shocked that I was 8 cm, almost completely effaced, and -2 station.

They rushed to get the birthing suite ready and started filling up the tub. I got in the tub as soon as I could and it helped a lot with the contractions. The midwife also showed Chris how to do counter pressure on my hips and he did that with each contraction which was a lifesaver.

The contractions stayed the same 30 seconds long 2-3 min apart until about 5:30 am. Then they started getting more intense and more frequent. I was feeling more pressure and the midwife did a quick check and I was 9 cm, completely effaced, and my water bag was bulging.

About 20-30 minutes later my water broke in the tub. The contractions became more intense, and I had the urge to push. I pushed for about 30 seconds with each contraction. Hospital policy was that I couldn’t have her in the water so as I was crowning I had to stand up.

Her arm was in front of her face so the midwife delivered her hand next to her face (nuchal hand), then shoulder then head. She was born completely at 6:29 am.

The midwife gave her to me between my legs and then I sat in the tub with her for a few minutes taking in her precious face. She started crying right away.

Then I got out of the tub and laid on the bed with her. We let the placenta finish pulsating and then Chris cut the cord. The placenta was beautiful and her cord was a beautiful spiral. The placenta was delivered a few minutes later. 

The midwife checked and I didn’t have any tears. Ada took to the breast quickly and had a beautiful pink coloration. Ada’s birth was everything I imagined it would be. I am so thankful for my wonderful midwife Rebecca and the labor and delivery nurses.

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