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How to Create More Margin in Your Life (Even…

  • April 2, 2026April 2, 2026
  • by Jessica Whitney

If you’re wondering how to create more margin in your life, you’re probably feeling stretched thin. Between kids, work, responsibilities, and everything running through your mind, it can feel like there’s no space left for you.

I get it.

As a mom of four, I’ve had seasons as a stay-at-home mom and seasons balancing multiple priorities. And one of the biggest challenges has been figuring out how to create more margin so I can pursue goals that matter to me — writing, health, personal growth, community and projects that align with my future.

Not necessarily my top priority right now.
But still important.
Still part of who I am.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly moving but never making progress on the things that matter to you — this post is for you.

Because you are allowed to be both.

You’re allowed to be a mom and a creator.
A leader and a learner.
A fitness lover and a foodie.
A caregiver and someone with dreams.

These things don’t compete. They complement each other. They make up your authentic self. This post was inspired by a dear friend of mine during a coaching call.

One of the things I love about coaching is it reminds me of what is actually important to me and what I stand for, so I want to share a few takeaways!

Read more “How to Create More Margin in Your Life (Even as a Busy Mom of Four)” →
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The Best Life Coach for Moms (and How to…

  • January 26, 2026January 26, 2026
  • by Jessica Whitney

If you’re a mom who feels like you’re running in a hundred different directions… you’re not alone.

There’s a certain kind of exhaustion that comes from being capable, motivated, and full of goals—while also carrying the daily mental load of motherhood.

You might be:

  • transitioning from working mom life to staying home and wondering who you are in this new season
  • trying to start a business or chase a dream with kids still needing you constantly
  • working hard to keep up, but still feeling like you’re barely staying afloat
  • craving routines that actually fit your strengths instead of fighting against them
  • trying to parent with more confidence, clarity, and calm
  • or trying to build financial stability and long-term freedom, but feeling stuck in survival mode

And here’s what I know for sure: you don’t need more pressure.
You need a plan that works in real life.

That’s why finding the best life coach for your season can be one of the most practical things you do—not because you’re failing, but because you’re ready to stop spinning and start moving forward with clarity.

In this post, I’m going to walk you through exactly what to look for when choosing the best life coach for you—so you can feel confident you’re investing in someone who will actually help you build traction. confidently choose the best life coach for you—and not waste time on someone who isn’t the right fit.

Read more “The Best Life Coach for Moms (and How to Know You’ve Found the Right One)” →
Mental Load & Mindset

How to Stop Feeling Behind Every Day: Mindset Shifts…

  • September 29, 2025October 2, 2025
  • by Jessica Whitney

Last Monday I woke up already behind. The counter was full of papers, my kids needed rides to practice, emails were waiting, and the laundry mountain in the corner seemed to mock me. By 9 a.m., I was still starting at my phone in overwhelm, feeling like I had zero margin or motivation—and plenty of guilt.

But in the middle of it, I stopped for just a moment. I asked myself: What would my future self thank me for right now?

It wasn’t tackling the laundry pile. It was pausing long enough to eat breakfast and breathe before moving into the rest of the day. That simple shift—choosing to act for my future self instead of reacting to the noise—completely changed the tone of my morning.

That’s the power of a mindset shift.

And I want to share 5 more mindset shifts that actually work for moms!

Read more “How to Stop Feeling Behind Every Day: Mindset Shifts That Actually Work for Moms” →
Mental Load & Mindset

The Invisible Load of Back-to-School—and How to Lighten It…

  • August 7, 2025September 8, 2025
  • by Jessica Whitney

Back-to-school season hits different, doesn’t it? It’s not just about grabbing a fresh box of crayons or new shoes. It’s the invisible load—the buzzing background noise of 20 open browser tabs in your brain.

You’re not alone in feeling this way!!

This year, that invisible load has felt particularly heavy as I’ve wrestled with decisions about my own kids’ activities. I find myself caught in the tension between wanting my children to have opportunities to grow and learn, and fearing that we’re pushing them toward burnout and an over-scheduled life. I have to actively tell myself there’s no reason to feel guilty, but the pressure is still there.

My oldest is on a select baseball team, and my daughter is in gymnastics for 16 hours a week. The commitment is real, and the worry is too. Am I preparing my son for high school and college, or am I robbing him of his childhood? Is my daughter’s physical and emotional well-being being stretched too thin?

As the fall schedule fills up, I also feel the guilt of not signing up my younger kids for activities, wondering if they’re missing out on key developmental opportunities.

This post touches on some of the invisible worries we as moms carry—and ways to share the load!

Read more “The Invisible Load of Back-to-School—and How to Lighten It This Year” →
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How I’m using AI This Week (As a Mom…

  • July 24, 2025March 6, 2026
  • by Jessica Whitney

AI is everywhere right now—and it’s growing like crazy. Some people love it. Some like it. Most are a little freaked out by the unknowns.

I get it.

There’s still a lot we don’t know about where AI is headed. But I also know this: I’ve already used it to uplevel my life. I’ve been telling everyone I know—especially moms—about my favorite ways to use AI and the specific prompts that make it actually useful.

The secret isn’t just using AI like it’s Google. The real magic happens when you learn to prompt it well and combine it with what you already know. That’s when things click.

In this post, I’m sharing how I’ve been using ChatGPT this week in my personal life as a mom of four. Most AI content out there is business-focused—but these are game changers in our day-to-day family life.

💡 Heads up: This post contains affiliate links, which means I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase—at no extra cost to you.


Read more “How I’m using AI This Week (As a Mom of Four!)” →
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Simple 30 Day Journal Challenge (with Prompts to Bring…

  • June 4, 2025March 16, 2026
  • by Jessica Whitney

I’ve always wanted to be someone who journals—you know, the kind of person who fills notebooks with insight, reflection, and soul-deep clarity. But honestly? Between kids, meals, appointments, and the whirlwind of life, it felt like one more thing I should do, not something I could actually stick with.

But this summer, I’m trying something different. I’m doing a 30 Day Journaling Challenge—not as a perfectionist checklist, but as a grounding rhythm. It’s short, structured, and soul-nourishing. I even asked ChatGPT to help me come up with meaningful 30 day journal challenge prompts, and the response gave me exactly what I needed: a super simple process—Dump → Reflect → Reframe—and a list of intentional prompts to walk through day by day.

So I’m sharing it here with you—because if you’re feeling overwhelmed, distracted, or stuck in your head lately, this might be the reset you didn’t know you needed.

Simple 30 Day Journaling Challenge (with Prompts to Bring Peace + Clarity)

self-care journal challenge to do daily

Why I’m Doing a 30 Day Journal Challenge

Lately, I’ve noticed something about my mind: I keep circling back to the same worries. Overanalyzing conversations. Ruminating over what’s next. Feeling unsure about what I’m missing or whether I’m doing enough. Can you relate?

What I’ve realized is that if I don’t get those thoughts out, they just keep building. For me, journaling is a way to calm the noise in my head. It’s not about being perfectly eloquent—it’s about finding a moment of peace and clarity in the chaos of my day.

It’s also deeply spiritual for me. I want to slow down enough to notice where God is working in my life, to reflect on His purpose, and to stop trying to be the hero or the victim in every story I tell myself. Instead, I want to see God’s redemption, even in the mess.

Whether or not you’re religious, identifying your thoughts and reframing them helps you come back to who you are—and who you’re becoming.

Who This 30 Day Journal Challenge Is For

This is for you if:

  • You’re overwhelmed or exhausted and need a soft reset.
  • You’ve been feeling off and can’t quite name why.
  • You want to reconnect with yourself (and maybe with God too).
  • You want clarity on what’s next or peace with what’s now.
  • You need something simple that fits into real life.

I’m a mom of multiple kids, and my plate is full—so I created this 30 day challenge with that in mind. No long entries, no pressure to perform. Just 10–15 minutes a day to be honest with yourself and reflect.

By the way, if you want a life-changing 10-min to a new you mindset shift, grab the freebie in your inbox here!

How to Journal with Intention (Without Rambling)

Here’s the 3-step journaling method I’m using each day. It’s the heartbeat of this challenge:


🧠 A. Dump (2–3 minutes)

Let it all out. No editing. No judgment. Just write what you’re really feeling and thinking.

“I’m frustrated that I snapped at the kids again. I feel like I’m behind on everything and I don’t know how to catch up.”

🔍 B. Reflect (2–3 minutes)

Zoom out. Ask yourself:

  • What’s really underneath this?
  • What pattern or pressure is showing up?
  • What truth am I not acknowledging?

“I think I’m expecting myself to never struggle. I haven’t asked for help, and I’m carrying way too much alone.”

🌱 C. Reframe or Reset (1–2 minutes)

Close by writing a truth, encouragement, or intention. Something to carry forward.

“It’s okay to need rest. I’ll reset tomorrow and ask for help tonight. I am doing my best—and that’s enough.”


That’s it! You don’t have to overthink it. Just show up. Even one paragraph is powerful when it’s honest.

30 Day Journal Challenge Prompts

Here are the exact 30 day journal challenge prompts I’ll be using each day. You can print them out, save this post, or screenshot them to follow along. If you miss a day—no guilt. Just pick back up where you left off.


🧠 WEEK 1: Awareness & Grounding

  1. What emotion is most present in me today?
  2. What’s one thing I’m avoiding thinking about, and why?
  3. How is my body feeling right now? What might it be trying to tell me?
  4. What would I say to a close friend who felt the way I do?
  5. What am I clinging to that’s adding stress or pressure?
  6. When did I feel most grounded this week? What helped?
  7. What do I need more of—and less of—emotionally right now?

💬 WEEK 2: Reflection & Self-Talk

  1. What story am I telling myself today? Is it true?
  2. What triggered me recently? What deeper wound might that poke at?
  3. How have I been speaking to myself lately?
  4. What’s something I need to forgive myself for?
  5. In what ways am I proud of how I’ve shown up lately?
  6. What’s one belief I’m ready to challenge or release?
  7. What’s been draining me—and what can I do about it?

🌱 WEEK 3: Clarity & Growth

  1. What patterns keep repeating in my life?
  2. What would my wise, grounded self say to me right now?
  3. What’s something I’ve learned about myself recently?
  4. What’s one fear that’s holding me back—and what would I do without it?
  5. What would it look like to honor my limits today?
  6. What do I need to let go of to feel lighter?
  7. What’s one boundary I need to reinforce?

✨ WEEK 4: Purpose & Intention

  1. What am I being invited to grow through right now?
  2. What would “peace” look like in my day today?
  3. What matters most to me in this season of life?
  4. What do I want to remember about today?
  5. What helps me come back to myself when I feel scattered?
  6. What would feel nourishing for me this week?
  7. What am I grateful for that I usually overlook?
  8. What kind of woman/mom/friend/wife do I want to be becoming?
  9. What am I releasing—and what am I stepping into?

Final Thoughts: Save This and Join Me

You don’t need to wait for the “right time” to start this. You just need a few quiet minutes and a willingness to be honest with yourself.

Whether you do it every day or just a few times a week, this 30 day journal challenge can help you:

  • Slow down.
  • Feel more present.
  • Clear mental clutter.
  • Reconnect with yourself and with God.

So here’s your invitation: save this post and join me in journaling your way toward more peace and clarity. I’ll be over here with my coffee, messy bun, and journal—processing life one honest page at a time.

Let me know if you’re in—I’d love to cheer you on

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The Secret to Staying Motivated as a Stay At…

  • February 3, 2025February 4, 2025
  • by Jessica Whitney

At the beginning of the year, I often get super excited about all of my dreams and plans and goals. But as the year progresses (ahem, February), life just starts getting in the way and the monotony of pursuing and the doubts of failing start to creep in. In order to avoid burnout, here are a few tips I’ve learned throughout the for how to stay motivated as a stay at home mom.

You have all the best intentions. You write down all your goals. And you are determined – this time – to really stick to your resolutions, but for some reason, you never stay motivated.

Between the kids being sick, an unexpected work trip for your husband, and the car breaking down, you feel like you can never get ahead. You’re constantly playing catch-up when you had determined this would be your year to get organized and stop feeling so chaotic.

I want to let you in on my little secret to help you stay motivated from day to day even when you’re exhausted and overwhelmed!

This post was originally posted in 2019 and updated in Feb 2025 with a few of my favorite tips.

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Mental Load & Mindset

5 Rules To Be A Successful Mom

  • August 30, 2021August 8, 2025
  • by Jessica Whitney

5 Rules To Be Successful as a Mom

There are the tried and true rules that I follow every day. As a mom to four kids with a husband who travels, these rules are my bread and butter of life that help me be a happy, fun, supportive, and positive mother.

There are affiliate links in this post, this means if you click a link and make a purchase, I will receive a commission at no additional cost to you.

Consistency Over All or Nothing

Something is better than nothing. Implementing small changes and improvements each day creates a compounding effect. When we choose all or nothing, unfortunately, nothing normally wins. When we choose progress over perfection, we all win.

Daily accountability

There are many forms of accountability. Whether you actually reach out to a friend, hire a life coach, or use an online checklist to hold you to your daily goals, make sure you have something in place to motivate you and guarantee your success. 

I meet monthly with a group of friends to discuss our goals and dreams and what we want to improve on. Knowing that I have to report to someone about these goals makes all the difference. At these meetings, we reflect on and encourage each other through Power Sheets, an intentional and purpose focused planner.

Stop waiting for the perfect time

Many people, if they fall off the wagon on a goal or intention, they immediately quit and say they will wait until the next week. Next month. Next year.

If you don’t succeed on Monday, don’t wait an entire week to try again. That’s 6 days wasted just to have a “new beginning.” Instead, brush yourself off and begin again as the sun rises.

Make a decision

Many of us fall into routines and habits without realizing it. We become passive participants in life. Most of us need to make the decision to start showing up.

When we choose to show up, when we choose to actively make decisions about how we spend our time and money and efforts, we become more connected and aware of how we can improve our lives and find ourselves again.

Choose your top three.

I am a classic overlister. I use to do lists for everything. Whenever my husband would ask me how my day went, I would bemoan that I got “nothing” done. This “nothingness” day in and dat out discouraged me. The truth of the matter is, I actually got “a lot” done, but my list was so long and cumbersome I couldn’t see my success. All I could see were the little unchecked boxes on my never ending list.

Over time, I’ve gotten better at setting realistic goals so I feel like a success. I limit my expectations to just the top 3 most important items for the day (this is how I think moms should make an effective to do list!). If I complete those items, then I celebrate the day as a success. If I get anything else checked off “the list”, then that’s a lovely bonus.

Once I get my top three items done, I make a positive choice to relax and enjoy my rest rather than wallow in the sense of laziness that abounds itself when you put off what you know you should do.

Last Thing You Should Know about Being a Successful Mom

There is no such thing as perfection. As soon as you let that go, you will be able to enjoy motherhood so much more! Each day, if you focus on consistency, intentionality, and managing expectations, you’ll find you do have more control over your life than you ever imagined. Stop being a passive bystander in your life, and start taking action today.

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110 Mini Habits to Track in the New Year

  • November 14, 2020July 1, 2025
  • by Jessica Whitney

I have been scouring the internet for good habits to track (and also bad habits to stop), and I finally came up with a list!

Whether you pick one off this list or it simply inspires you to track another habit, the key is ACTUALLY picking one and beginning to track your habits.

I love tracking habits because these small actions lead to seriously big change over time.

When I’ve tracked habits:

  • I’ve increased my passive income 200%
  • Met my weight loss goals
  • Trained for multiple half-marathons post baby, and
  • Decreased my feelings of overwhelm as a stay at home mom (just to name a few).

Let’s chat about a few habit questions and then dive into the ultimate list of habits you can add to your tracker!

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110 Habits to Track (why and how to track effectively!)

110 habits to trackk to improve your life and how to track them

What exactly is a “habit”?

Each time you complete a new action, thought, or belief, your brain fires neurons that forge pathways in your brain. 

As you repeat certain actions, it becomes easier for your brain to complete these actions without your conscious thought and effort. These actions then become habits.

A perfect example is driving home from work without “realizing” it because your brain went on autopilot. This is a habit!

In Charles Duhigg’s Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business, he discusses that each habit is proceeded by a cue and followed by a reward. I won’t get into the cue/reward part too much here but it is an important concept to think about when looking at your habits.

Also, save this post if you’d like to know the difference between good habits, bad habits, and how to break them!

Why habits and not routines?

Habits are automatic actions you don’t have to think about. This is versus routines that are normally a series of actions that you put together in order to achieve a specific goal. 

I am a stay at home mom with 4 kids managing a business, home life, multiple schedules, and trying to balance all the things: fitness, quality time with my family, my cleaning schedule, meeting up with friends, my personal goals, date nights with my husband, bills, appointments, etc.

If I can habitualize AS MUCH OF MY DAY as possible, I absolutely will. Creating healthy habits helps me limit decision fatigue and also get rid of my feelings of overwhelm.

What’s the best way to track habits?

I personally like using a habit tracker either in a bullet journal, planner, habit tracker journal or printable. But a basic calendar is also a helpful tool!

Why a habit printable or habit calendar? Isn’t there an app for that?

I don’t know about you but when I open my phone, I get EASILY distracted. The buzzing and notifications are endless.

I do NOT need another reason to turn on that bright, addictive screen or download ANOTHER app because that will just distract me from my goals. I recommend going screen-free for this activity.

Here is a free habit tracker and brainstorming worksheet to get you started.

Free habit tracker printable PDF positive and negative habits

<< Download the free habit tracking PDF here!>>

So….What do I do for my habits?

I track my habits on a pretty printable or habit calendar instead. It brings a little bit of satisfaction to check mark off that habit and say DONE. I personally use my Cultivate What Matters: Power Sheets to track my habits.

According to Psychology Today, that satisfaction then brings a smile to my face (I mean at least a little one!) which increases my endorphins and serotonin and reinforces the benefits of doing that previous activity because my brain is literally having a happy party because of my smile.

How many habits should you track?

This is one of the most important things! You should ONLY track 2 – 6 habits when you’re first starting out. Do not overcommit!

What daily habits should I track?

If you’re only focusing on daily habits I recommend starting with your morning routine habits that you want to change first and go from there throughout the day.

It takes energy to change your habits and to create new ones because they aren’t automatic yet! If you can get consistent with your morning habits then you can stack on other habits later.

Also, research has suggested, self-control is very similar to strength or energy. It can be depleted throughout the day which gets in the way of what we would consider “good decision making.”

Why do we splurge on an item we rationally know we shouldn’t? Why do we binge watch a show when we know we should go to bed? 

A lot of our irrational decision making is tied to a depletion of self-control. Therefore, if you start in the morning with new tasks, your self-control will be at it’s highest peak, and thus you’ll be able to complete tasks you normally wouldn’t have the “energy” for.

Here are some small changes to make for a big difference:

I love to think about the 1% rule as I go about my days. My only goal each day is 1% improvement each day.

I strive for just ONE small change or new habit EACH DAY that aligns with my current goals and priorities. Think about it…

If you improved 1% every WEEK, you would see a 52% change by the end of the year! Now, THAT Is something worth working towards.

“I never stick to my habits, how do I make sure it works this time?”

If you are having trouble sticking to your habits, then try to focus on a habit that is EVEN SMALLER. The smaller the better.

For example, want to work out every day? Instead, focus on putting on your work-out clothes.

Want to stop snacking when bored? Instead, focus on drinking a full glass of water when you feel bored.

While I cannot guarantee this works for EVERYONE, I do know, if it hasn’t been working for you so far, it’s time to change SOMETHING. Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is a little bit silly isn’t it?

So, without further ado, check out this list of small changes and habits to make a big difference in your life.

I broke it down by the following categories (which you can totally click on) or you can just scroll away!

Let’s go!

  • Personal Goals Habit List
  • Health Habit List
  • Home management and cleaning habit list
  • Relationships and quality time list
  • Work Habit List

Personal Goals Habit List

  • Don’t hit the snooze button.
  • Went to bed by a certain time.
  • Read a book for 30 minutes.
  • Got target amount of sleep for the night.
  • No social media all day.
  • No spend day.
  • Invested in self-care.
  • Turned electronics off 30 minutes before bed.
  • Yoga / stretching
  • Took a photo of all of your kids.
  • Backed up your photos.
  • Wrote in your gratitude journal.
  • Left work on time.
  • Less than 1 hour of social media.
  • Honed a new skill.
  • Worked toward a specific goal.
  • Met 10K+ step goal for the day.
  • Closed your rings on your iWatch.
  • Edited family photos.
  • Create a photo album for the year.
  • Spent 1 hour outside.
  • Drank a glass of water first thing in the morning.
  • Bible / prayer time in the morning.
  • Started your diffuser with your favorite essential oil after breakfast.
  • Unsubscribed from unnecessary emails for 10 minutes.
  • Didn’t watch TV.
  • Did not raise my voice at my kids during dinner.
  • Journaled for 5 minutes.
  • Practiced something trying to learn (i.e. calligraphy, painting, language).
  • Set an intention for the day based on your goals.
  • Picked 1 item on my to do list and knocked it out first.

Health Habit List

  • Ate 5 vegetables.
  • Ate 2 fruit.
  • Exercised.
  • Drank my target water amount.
  • No junk food, alcohol, soda, etc.
  • Took vitamins/medicine.
  • Flossed your teeth.
  • No snacking.
  • Created a meal plan.
  • Made protein balls.
  • Researched easy recipes.
  • Added recipes to make to Pinterest board.
  • Used retainer at night.
  • Cleaned with mouth wash.
  • No pimples.

Home management & Cleaning Habit List

  • Made a weekly master to do list.
  • Prioritized to do list for the day.
  • Wrote down your expenses for the day.
  • Updated your budget.
  • Completed top priority on to do list (urgent AND important).
  • Tidied the kitchen before bed.
  • Started the dishwasher before bed.
  • Loaded the washing machine before bed.
  • Started the dryer when you woke up.
  • Sorted the mail.
  • Decluttered a closet for 30 minutes.
  • Tossed worn out clothes while folding laundry.
  • Prayed for your family while folding laundry.
  • Ran the Roomba in one room.
  • Vacuumed one room in the house.
  • Gave the kids a bath.
  • Washed sheets and towels.
  • Vacuumed baseboards.
  • Watered your plants.
  • Paid the bills.
  • Transferred money into a savings account.
  • Did a 15 min quick tidy before dinner.
  • Draino’d the sink.
  • Washed sheets.
  • Washed towels.
  • Wiped down kitchen cupboards.
  • Cleaned the oven.
  • Tossed expired items from the pantry.
  • Dusted ceiling fans.
  • Ran a cleaning cycle on dishwasher.
  • Ran a cleaning cycle on laundry machine.
  • Cleaned the microwave.
  • Wiped down stove top.
  • Mopped the floors.
  • Swept the kitchen.

Read: The Ultimate Home Management Binder for Busy Moms

Relationships & Quality time Habit List

  • Researched a future vacation.
  • Went for a walk with the family.
  • Rode bikes with the family.
  • Read a book with the kids before bed.
  • Spent 15 min 1:1 time with one family member.
  • Favorite highs/lows at dinner with family.
  • Family dinner.
  • Let the kids pick a favorite meal.
  • Texted a friend that you are thinking about them.
  • Called your parents.
  • Date night with spouse.
  • Weekly pow wow with spouse.
  • Monthly family meeting with everyone.
  • Had a dance party in the kitchen.
  • Date with each kid monthly.
  • Watched a show with your spouse.
  • Planned a date night.
  • Added date night to the calendar.
  • Walked around the block with your dog.
  • Went for a bike ride with the kids.
  • Taught your kid how to play a sport.
  • Drew chalk designs on your driveway.

Work Habit List

  • Worked towards a goal (side hustle, decluttering, redecorating, etc.)
  • Brain dumped your to do list daily (there’s a free daily to do list printable here!)
  • Wrote a short to do list for the day that is more manageable.
  • Scheduled breaks.
  • Closed your email while working on a task.
  • Tackled the challenging tasks in the morning.
  • Did not multi-task.
  • Asked someone to be your accountability partner.

List of habits to stop!

This isn’t a comprehensive list but it’s a few that I’ve seen get in the way of what’s actually important to you.

  • Checking your phone as soon as you wake up
  • Sleeping with your phone next to your bed
  • Checking Facebook on the can
  • Checking notifications as soon as they go off
  • Running shoes put away in the closet
  • Planning to go to the gym after work
  • Checking email compulsively
  • Turning on Instagram without thinking
  • Snacking when bored

So what now? Common questions for new habit tracking people.

This list is totally overwhelming, where do I even start?

I recommend starting with 1 goal that you have and asking yourself which habits support that goal or take away from that goal. Start there!

If your goal is to have a cleaner home, I recommend starting with habits around cleaning. 

If your goal is to develop better relationships with your kids, then I encourage you to add and subtract habits that relate to quality time with your kids. 

Pick 2-3 for the month that support that goal. You do NOT and should NOT try to tackle all of these at once. 

How do I use a habit calendar?

I LOVE habit calendars because they are easy to use for one simple habit. Although this list is LENGTHY it is simply meant to inspire, not overwhelm you.

Pick ONE habit off the list and use a simple 30 day calendar to X off each day that you complete the new habit.

I also like to pursue my longest “habit streak” as well. How many days can I go In A ROW? I don’t want to skip today because I’ll break my streak!

What is better to track – daily habits, weekly habits, monthly habits?

Great question! You probably noticed that some of the habits I listed on here are habits you might do weekly not daily.

If that is the case, make a list of the habits you want to track and identify if it is daily, weekly, or monthly. I still recommend only picking 2-3 to start out with!

The last thing you should know about the best habits to track…

Everyone has their own goals they are working towards. Remember, it’s all about progress over perfection. Trust the process and marking off your habits. At the end of the week or month, congratulate yourself for a job well done throughout the month. Give yourself a reward and keep on keeping on! You got this!

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Simple Christmas Budget Worksheet Printable PDF Free Budgeting

5 Tips to Enjoy Christmas on a Budget [Free…

  • August 15, 2020December 11, 2024
  • by Jessica Whitney

Here’s a super simple free Christmas Budget printable from my home to yours along with tips to have an affordable yet joyful Christmas.

Make your list, check it twice, and stay on budget with all the things this holiday season! It’s so easy for spending to get out of control if you don’t have a plan, so here’s how to NOT stress about money this Christmas.

No one likes the feeling of paying off Christmas in July (so not cool!) yet, so many people fall victim to the same mistakes every year.

Stay on a budget but still bring plenty of Christmas joy to your home with this free Christmas budget. 

I mean, isn’t it pretty? 😉

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